The Notebook Date
There are different ways you can do this date. You could get carnival theme party supplies and do carnival games and foods then watch the movie together. You could have a nice candle lit dinner with Big Band music playing and do some slow dancing and watch the movie. You could read romantic and erotic poetry together while you sit in a swing outdoors at night or even go parking
. Wear stockings! Write love notes afterward.The Shrek Date
The Shrek Date is one we like to have in the tent outside, but if we were doing it indoors we'd make it like we were having a sleep over in the living room. I might would make chickon and dumplings because when I was little I would think that chickon and dumplings would be something that Yoda would have at his house, and Shrek reminds me of a large Yoda (minus the Jedi skillz). But you could look around in Halloween cookbooks that have things that seem "grody", like grody gourmet to have.
The Willy Wonka Date
For the Willy Wonka date we had Salmon in the Dishwasher because it was silly (it was also good). So you could find recipes from like the Surreal Gourmet and make something off the wall. Your body could be Candy Land and name different parts of your body names of candies and maybe have fun with flavors.
The Goonies Date
This is another date we like to do in the tent, but it can also be indoors like the Shrek date. You can go to a hobby store and get pirate theme party supplies if you really want to go all out. You can hide little things for each other in the house and then make a directions for the "hunt". Give each other or give yourself pirate names. You could like we did have super-size turkey legs and root veggies, or go online and look up menu ideas for pirate theme parties. http://piratesbooty.com/ We might would go play mini-golf at our fav place because it's pirate theme. We make a bet at the hole in the cave that if I make it A has to kiss me and if he makes it I have to kiss him, it's a win-win situation! Dress up like a pirate and a wench!
The Chocolat Date
Of course you'd watch the movie Chocolat, but also take a cue that chocolate is like an aphrodisiac. I'd have simple finger type foods and then you can blind fold each other and feed each other assorted chocolates for dessert, having to try to guess what the flavors are. This might be a good night to use body chocolate and wear something in a rich chocolate color. Go all out with chocolate scented candles. Go to the music store and find some romantic sounding french music.
The Bridges of Madison County Date
Go for a drive in the country, go for a walk, hold hands, pick wildflowers. Have a nice home cooked dinner (that you made together) by candle light and play romantic oldies in the background. Wear a cute sundress. Watch the movie and make sure to touch and notice her during the movie. Talk about your dream vacations and what excites you about making love there or what you find romantic about the places. Write love notes afterward.
The Ghost Date
Maybe go to one of those places where you can design your own pottery and make something for each other or something together. Maybe even buy some clay at a hobby store and just do it at home and have fun. Wear one of his dress shirts or an over-sized button up shirt. Watch the movie, dance to oldies esp Unchained Melody, make love on the couch, tell each other how much you love each other. Find a place where you can press a penny into a design and give them to each other, then make a habit of pressing pennies and collecting them when you are out and see where you can make them.
The Nacho Libre Date
We gave each other wrestler names like I was "Chic Chilla" and A was "El Mono: (the Monkey). We had turkey tacos and we have talked about having grilled corn on a stick sprinkled with paprika. We had tickle fights (this date was also known as Tickle Taco Tuesday) and I wore red leopard tights and a ruffly shirt and made a joke about the time I was screaming A's name and he used his strength to rip my blouse. We also talked smack and I warned him that if he thought my "Crab Legs Cracker" move was career ending then I would finish him completely with my new move "the Dom Bomb." We talked about when we ate Mexican food on our honeymoon and had "Marriage Trivia."
Blue Hawaii Date
This was also Tiki Taco Tuesday. We had fish tacos and pina cooladas and we listened to tiki music. You can again buy things at a party supply store and do a little hula dance to drive him wild. And I won't even go there with the leis, tho it is tempting
. Find a cute little music box or box of some kind and write a week's worth of little love notes or dares and everyday pick one and read it together and keep the box and notes as a souvenir. Maybe talk about a trip you've taken that was tropical, or daydream about taking your tropical dream vacation or second honeymoon together. Blazing Saddles Date
This was also Wilder West Wednesday. We gave ourselves western names, I was Willow Whipperwill and A was Quick Draw McGraw. You can even dress the part as a can-can or saloon girl and a cowboy/cowgirl. We talked smack, like I told A that he drove me wild with his ranch hands and buckaroo body. And A told me how he never missed with his trusty steel, he even called me little lady. I told A I was a whiskey slinger and not a gun slinger, but I was too classy to dance on the bar. We had A's Bowls of Fire Chili and Outlaw S'Moores and nice cold beer. You be the cowgirl that night
Haunted Honeymoon/Young Frankenstein Date
Wear comfy pj's and snuggle on the couch. Play Trick or Treat, but more like Truth or Dare, revealing the truth about your sexual fantasies or doing little love dares. Have movie food like popcorn, candy, nachos, pretzels, etc. Talk about if you were scared on your first date together or your first impressions, remember about your honeymoon and when you discovered the sweet mystery of life. Do the Monster Mash
Peggy Sue Got Married Date
You could go all out and get 50's costumes if at home or just wear something modern but casual, a dress and pony tail might be nice tho. Maybe go for a burger at a drive in or older style diner if there is one nearby. Take a romantic night stroll and make sure to hold hands and flirt, maybe grab an ice cream cone or lollipop and make lots of eye contact while you're licking it and lick it suggestively to drive him wild. Listen to 50's oldies (I have some good ones listed in the love songs topic) and talk about when you first fell in love or your fav memories from high school. Slow dance. I think it would be great if you could move a small lcd tv to the front of the car and watch it from the back seat, then make out and make love in the back seat in the drive way, carport, garage etc. As scandalous as it may sound, we still have nights at "the Sonic" (that was our code word to go parking), sometimes we find a spot while driving and go for it
. Alice In Wonderland
We would call this A in Wonderland. With the new movie just out and soon to DVD I am really looking forward to this. Dress up like Alice and have a tea party, as they say when given the choice of coffee, tea, or me, A picks me. It could be an unbirthday party and you could exchange gifts of a sexual nature (toys, lubes, suggestions, etc) and after blowing out the candles the cake will be served on your body. The unbday spanking is optional
Wear white lingerie and stockings and make love with black lights. Black lights are actually kinda flattering like candlelight. Nine to Five Date
This is secretary/boss scenario, but it can be fun and don't feel pressure to be so super sexy. I just sorta set up the "den" to be like an office so if your hubby has a home office this would be perfect. I'm wearing a long skirt and sweater and even glasses so I look kinda frumpy, but under my clothes I'm wearing the opposite. And as my clothes come off, my hair will come down (haha) and the glasses will come off, etc. You know the drill, lean on the desk seductively, maybe a little to the side so your leg peaks through the slit in your skirt or straddle him slightly while leaned against the desk and ask if he needs you to do anything else, you know it's been a rough day and he just seems so tense. Or you could come behind him and start massaging him and whisper it suggestively in his ear. Do it on the desk and already have it in mind that you'll just brush all that's on the desk to the side in a fit of passion. If you want to go further have a pic of you in your usual wife role on the desk and when your first tempting him turn it down and take the phone of the receiver so he knows exactly what your suggesting...not your usual dictation, yes that is cliche' but hey.
French Maid Fantasy
If you can find a movie to go with this then you can, but this would be like a bday treat or surprise. Tell him to take some guy time or time for himself for a couple of hours then you'll call him when you want him to come back home for his surprise. Then when you call tell him that you are wearing a french maid outfit and have set the bedroom up for a night of passion and when he gets home you're going to bathe him and get him all warm and clean and then get down and dirty in the bedroom. Play it up: Adrian: oui!!!!! Now I know why I like gourmet foods like French Fries & French Onion Dip.
Adrian took the How French Are You? quiz and the result is French Nationalist
You are 110% French. People in the French community look up and admire you because you follow the French through thick and thin. You sing La Marseillaise with your hand on your heart and a tear... in your eye. You know France better than anybody.And You will do anything for the Motherland.
Renae
That's SO HOT man, totally hot. Don't forget french dip sandwiches. Would you like me to dress up like a french maid for your bday?
Adrian
Oui!!! Oui!!!
Renae
Will there be certain dirty things that need my special attention?
Adrian
Oui!!! Oui!!! I would say more in French...but that is all I remember from High School.
Renae
I'm kind of expensive, but worth it, I am very thorough and a total pro. It's such a shame that your wife neglects certain things around the house so you have to hire outside help, but then again I am always happy to help where I'm needed. And in this economy every job I can get I'll take. But since it's your bday I might give you a few freebies, since you seem like a really nice guy and you really need my services and all.
Lady Marmalade Fantasy
I think this would be best as a total surprise, like it would seem like a regular, everyday dinner date, maybe even like you're having a blind date, and have like a little gift bag with tissue paper with you and tell him that's a surprise for later or an ice breaker. Then excuse yourself to the bathroom and put your panties in the bag or make him think you have. And have a little note inside the bag that says something like "Do you want to sleep with me tonight? If you do you can keep my panties as a souvenir. All you have to do is say yes." More than likely he'll say yes and on the way home, esp if you have removed your panties, you can start touching yourself to help get ready, not so much that it's a dangerous distraction...he might even touch you too. Then when you get home take him to the bedroom and have him wait while you put on retro lingerie. Give him a lap dance and remove the lingerie if you want or leave it on if you want and can, and tell him that you want to tie him up and give him oral and then pleasure yourself with his body, you can also tell him you want him to give you oral while he's tied up.
Nice Neglected Housewife
Tell your hubby if he spends sometime outside doing some work that you'll have a nice reward waiting for him. After he comes in hot and sweaty be wearing a cute apron, heels, pearls and nothing else. Tell him that your husband stays so busy things just seem to get neglected, and he forgot to leave you money to pay him for his work there today. Tell him you feel just awful, and offer him a cold drink and some cake and tell him that you just don't know how to tell him how much you appreciate how hard he worked, then run your finger in the icing and lick it off making a slight suck noise at the end, and stare right into his eyes and ask him does he have any ideas on how you can pay and thank him. See what he says and then lead him to the shower and make love in the shower, hoping you won't get caught.
